Merry Christmas!!

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Love.

'Love knows no boundaries'...I truly belief in this sentence. The more you love a person, the more you could sacrify for him/her. There are no restrictions or limitations to what or who he/she is, no limitations to their status, their family or even their races. It is a bliss to both party that are truly in love.

Sometimes, love is also blind. Despite whatever he/she may have or be in person, when both party truly accept and love each others for who they are, or sees the perfection in each other, this is the blindness of love. This is also what they call a "beautifully imperfect relationship".

Love makes one completed. One will feel half completed when they are single. Whenever he/she is not complete, and sees a couple walk passed, he/she will feel awkward or upset in their hearts.

The way to get love is to be more easy going, relax, open-minded and give yourself and your party more chances at the starting stage. Looks really does not matter. It is the initial feeling that you can built in the start of the relationship that determines the duration. And time and tide wait for no men. I do not believe that a guy and a gal will have to know each other long enough as friends first in order to get together. Because when the time has reaped for them to be together, the chances of the guy and the gal's chemistry may deplete along the days if they do not give each other a quick chance to be together, to explore the difference or slimilarity earlier.

The desire of the heart to love sometimes plays a part. One needs the desire to love, in order to be successful. Once you have the ernest desire to love, God will see your sincerity and either send his cupid to work, or bless you directly to it. There is no point having no desire or no hope in love and with in emptiness in your heart, suddenly whine in the heart and say, "where's my love?".

...Love is about care, share, happiness, affections, commitment, protections, being a confidante, a guardian, an adviser, and to be part of each other's life, and even part of each other's root family's life.

True love is when both are ready to see the future together, to see a plan together, preparing to be with each other through thick and thin, and to set up a whole new family together.

Love is more important as compare to friendship. For the one you love becomes part of you, and will form a new family and generation together with you, while friends are there to support and share your happiness. Ultimately, when one becomes attached, married, and form their own family, the individual will be less likely to be with their friends but rather, spouse and their newborn family.

The root family is also the second priority... As one form a new family, they will keep in touch with the root family rather than their friends. Therefore in the priority, i would categorize the sequence of priority as: Love, Family, and then friends.

You may lose a friend or 2, but when you are married, you can rely on your spouse and family, as they are obligatory, as compared to your friends. Therefore your spouse is your closest kin and that he/she, who is your other half should be there for you.

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....I love her. She is someone that our awesome God has granted me. The moment i saw her, i knew we are made to be together. She is my life, a perfect girl that heaven has given me. She is none other than my sweetheart girlfriend, W.H.

W.H is a cute and nice girl, someone who is obedient, enjoys food, humourous, intelligent, yet humble and accomodating, and knows how to be herself well. She pleases the family well too. In my heart, she is my cutest and sweetest girl, my perfect girl, my other half, and my future wife.

We will never let this perfect love go.

We had alot of coincidents both in subtle and obvious manner. In fact, too much to recall, except for the first few. But i shall not describe them.

When once, i thought i had lost a ring, she wrote a letter to console me and asked me not to be sad, and assure that our relationship is strong. In fact, the ring was not lost, it was safely placed at my Confucius statue. Eventually she lost hers', but it never changes our love....

On our first anniversary, we went to the Republic of Steak and she gave me the card and stated all she could remember from the first touch. I was in fact, really touched by her thoughtfulness.

....I love her as much as she loves me. We both love and trusted each other. Although the journey for us will likely be till eternity, nothing has changed, and nothing will change the depth of our love and relationships.

Cherios.

Night.

There are quite a few countries i may need to go next year, yet not too sure if it will happen. This is due to time, money and certain constraints.

Completed my ECU Bachelor of Communication at quarter 3 of this year, i am deciding if it would be viable to go over to Perth, Western Australia for the graduation ceremony. Of course, in going over there, there should be R & R for anyone going together with me.

Base on one of my company part time lecturer's advise, flying over to perth takes only 5 hours, as compared to my taking of flight to Brisbane around 15 years ago, which really took close to 20 hours.

It is not yet decided if my family members will go with me, or my friends and/or girlfriend will go with me yet. The local graduate ceremony will likely held at quarter 4 of next year, which will be deemed quite long.

The next country is Vietnam, HCM city. My former Security Colleagues had wanted me to go with them on a couple of occassions, but it seems like i have not been able to afford the time yet.

In the mid of June, my plan to Vegas, Nevada for Protections training have to be withheld, and kept in view, as i am awaiting responses from my former Security Khakis, whom most likely have to hold due to financial reasons. The most feasible choice to go there will be either by 2, or 4 people, as accomodation includes twin sharing, while transport and food will be provided.

Probably early next year, i need to go to China for family matter too. But likely this will happen, as it involves financial matters.

Sometimes, i am thinking of embarking into my own business if possible. Business could be F &B and self-defence. I am keen to bring in a Krav defence system, but had needed to check with the originator if it would be recognised like the other Krav systems.

....The continuous little sleep at most of the days make my mind felt deteriorated....and i need a couple of consecutive 'oversleep' to feel replenish. But when will this happen, i shall not imagine first. Hopefully, my brain processor can really re-accelerate, or let God's miracle make it happened.

Time is always productive for me. I have no time to slack, for the past 6 months. It is work, pc, courses, meeting my girlfriend, and family. Probably once awhile, would catch up with a couple of friends to keep track of their happenings or situation.

....The reservist for next year and the IPPT will pose some hinderance to me. Yet, i would take them as an enjoyment rather, than to fawn at them. The reservist will be on 14 February 2011, Valentine's day, and it is my first valentine day with her. Wow, what a humour from heaven.

Heaven does bring humours to mankind. Do observe it in your life, and you can see many, either subtle or obvious.

As a PR and communication personnel, sometimes i do think that going into the related industry is worthwhile, although it would mean a career learning journey for me, if there is an opportunity. Organising events and communications tools for marketing purposes will really be interesting amongst many other functions that needed skills such as web, photo and video. The only imbalance is that communication student sshould have been taught technical skills of media related pheripherals, such as photoshops, deamweaver, and photo-editing, than to fully do analytical research and verbal communications. Because in executing marcom, technical skills are also essential, although not imperative. If to be fully trained in Mass Communication, PR and the Media would likely be the focus.

....Always in love with self-development, i am going for photoshop course early next year, and perhaps TEFL, for teaching of english.

I would love to be somekind of teacher, instructor, and in future, a trainer and lecturer, and best of all, having my own business all concurrently.

I would really like to be someone who can touch the lives of many people. Contributing to the community and the society is a must. I must have no fear in facing or dealing with anyone, not even my own boss. This way, i am able to be myself, and feel myself.

Moving forward, i hope that i have enough time to experience all the things in my life that i need to experience, even in job wise, perhaps to try out a couple of industries, or stay at one as long as possible, if there is opportunity for growth and monetary increment too.

Cheers.